One of my BFFs has basically made me feel like I am a fool to put up with H staying out all night so frequently. She thinks we are doomed. I wish I had never even confided in her but she is one of my closest confidants. I had a long talk with her today and it has likely left me feeling like the love is gone, the hope is gone....

Has anyone confided in someone about the BD and MLC-ish behavior, only to regret it because the person becomes pessimistic and even a bit condescending. If so, how did you deal with it?


H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9
BD - 11/2019
Married 14 years; Together 20 years