Could not agree more with KML, Ginger and Don. I don’t buy it that he is too busy to meet somehow, someway for a beer or a coffee or a quick walk. There is some reason he does not want to meet. What that is? Who knows yet.

That said, backing off and watching his actions will reveal much. In addition to what KML, Ginger and Don mention in regards to reasons why he is MIA, you could have a classic distancer on your hands. And if you do find that is the case, I would run for the hills because that dynamic is horrible. While it is normal to have some chase in the beginning,
it’s exhausting if it’s on a 24/7 loop.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced