(((Ginger))). How did you see a pic of M and son?? I would try to avoid that as much as possible if I were you.
It appears your decision to turn down Tuesday guy’s last minute invite has paid off in spades!! He has definitely doubled down on his interest level...lol. Keep playing it cool. I so admire your decision to do that when I’m sure you would have probably enjoyed going out on Friday. Good for you!!