I found out today W has consulted with a L with a highly litigious reputation. Big law firm, known for spending both parties into the hole. Known for aggressive tactics.
I’ve also heard of cases where law firms can put a lien on your house then draw off the equity. Given my W is attached to the house emotionally, and is not financially savvy, I worry about her falling for this kind of tactic.
I’m trying to stay calm as I think she was directed to this person and never bothered to shop around. There are ethical complaints online about this individual, claiming they are in cahoots with local judges. Like... first page of web search results, it doesn’t take any digging. If I were going to retain somebody I would have seen these red flags and taken a pass.
I can’t tell if she is naive and only consulted one L. I think that is the case - before I moved out I found this person’s name on a note.
The Cold War comes to mind. Two sides afraid of the other, if one side flinches all h3ll may break loose.
Anyways... I’m still hoping to avoid the courtroom route. Should know more in the next week. I’m aware the above is all about my W but I’m trying to work through my fears that she is going to do something like L up, file, and get aggressive. I have taken some steps to protect myself while still leaving open the possibility we can work this out.
