I posted this in my MLC thread last night but wanted to share here as well, for those of you that have been helping me.
"I think I'm confusing the heck out of my H. He was taking the kids for supper then to swimming. At the last minute, he (surprisingly) invited me to join them for dinner. I declined, ate by myself at home and went to my volunteer hour. After I told him I was going out (no details) but unbeknownst to him, none of my friends were available. I was going to go get a drink by myself, but I'm just not that brave/strong yet, so I went for a coffee by myself. After that, I went to Walmart and came home - 2 hours later than usual. He actually came upstairs to say hi and talk to me - he hasn't done that in 6 months! hahaha, I'm not thinking by a long shot, that we are out of the woods, or that he's changed his mind, but maybe, just maybe I've got him thinking and I'm ok with that."
He actually called me tonight to let me know he'd be late vs just texting and told me to have fun with the kids tonight. He also said he was looking at a 2nd job to help pay things down (vs saying to move out). Still not thinking we're good, but maybe he really is thinking. I have to keep positive thoughts in my head or I will collapse. So many friends telling me how amazingly strong I am.... 'I'd like to thank the academy......'
