Just a thought, but you may serve jack well by cutting him off for awhile.. it sounds like he is struggling with detaching from you and you consoling him may be dragging it out.. I know it’s done with best intentions, but it may be hurting him more in the long run


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized