Originally Posted by Kind18
I think any calculated response to his comments about your weight will show attachment.

That’s probably why he said it. He knows it’s a powerful bread crumb.


That makes a ton of sense. It's bait. He knows know how insecure I am about my body. He would've known it took a lot for me to get in that dress and own it. And he knows damn well how much of my body positivity used to rest on his opinion.

In fact he brought it up yesterday also. His SIL was at the event too. He felt like he had to share with me that she had contacted him and mentioned to him how good I look.