The event that H asked me about meeting up at is tomorrow. He also asked his boss's wife about it last week, me over the weekend and apparently another friend of ours last night. Typically, we all watch this event together. At first I was like OK cool he's actually trying to hang out, but now I am annoyed by it? All of these friends are on "my" side and think he's being immature, etc. I am not sure if I am even comfortable with him being around at this event in our nebulous situation. I feel I'd need more clarity with what is going on with us before hanging out in this group environment, but there isn't any non-weird way to address this. What should I do? I don't really think this is him using it as an excuse to see me or anything.
