What I do need here is some advice or clarity on the comments on my body and how I look. I do want him to notice my changing body, BUT I don't know how comfortable I am with him making comments about it.
My gut response from a seductive perspective is to look him in the eye, say "your not the only one to notice" smile and turn away and keep working.
Another option, from a self esteem issues, just quietly accept it. Do not assign meaning to it.
My lady has fluctuated her weight from underweight to over weight. I have enjoyed her through all the different sizes.
I think the key is your attitude. Projecting confidence. I am a firm believer in being seductive. Have fun with it.
