Ultimately he would have to look at himself and admit/accept his missteps in the M for him to stop blaming me entirely for SSM. But that’s a whole other story....
Yes, this is key, right? I'm thinking of what you said yesterday on may's thread too about their rewriting history and being unable to look in the mirror.
Originally Posted by wooba
With that said, I almost want to encourage you to experiment for yourself. Other vets may vehemently disagree with me though....ha!!!
No one has disagreed with you yet! Ha. I'm going to see if my feelings shift in the next week or so, talk it over with my IC. I do feel like if I am only focusing on my growth, it would be something to be open to. I feel more strongly that I would want to do it for ME. I am feeling the confident woman who seduced my H in the first place coming back. I want to embrace that woman again. But... it also seems anti-DB? I don't know!
