Wow there is Hope here in Krazytown - at least for some. I thought for sure after claiming you were going to make guys work for it you’d jump at whatever he offered and when he got around to offering it. Glad the guys suggested and you are trying something different.
My gut tells me, by putting myself in his shoes, he’s interested but not by a lot or is not sure. When I was sure, like wild girl or the online accident girl, I pursued. When not sure and pushing myself, like with most women lately, I put in little effort and asked Friday AM for that night - and only because I felt I should and thought I’d at least give it another chance.
For sure no sex or ANYTHING beyond goodnight kisses. Why? You really have to ask why LH? BECAUSE HE HAS NOT EARNED IT!!! That’s why.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D