Cross countries separation EU

[BenB]

My W love language is/was physical touch. But that was when things were fine between us. After BD none of that matters. I´m not even saying that your W is trying to keep you as plan B by giving you the signs you consider perhaps to be baby steps but she most definitely doesn´t want the pressure of your pursuit.

Even if things get better between you and she starts reaching out again, you shouldn´t be suggesting dinners. Doesn´t matter if it´s a fancy dinner or not. It could be McDonalds, you are still showing her by your behavior that you will be there for her if she ever decides she wants you back. For me, the real test began when my W went from being this dark, unrecognizable monster to more of what she used to be. She enjoyed spending time with me again. And I thought things were going to work out. We event went to Paris for a weekend and had so much fun. It was when I came home that I realized she´s just trying to keep me on the hook. How do I know? Because despite months of us hanging out, going for walks, weekend trips and dinners, there still was no intimacy!

A few of the vets have posted this and it couldn´t be more true - You are never as attractive as when you walk away. She wants space? Give her space.

It seems by your previous post that you think you can somehow do something about her decision to remain prideful and stubborn. That if you don´t do something, it will hurt your chances of R. The best thing you can do for yourself is to detach and focus on yourself.