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[BenB]

You really shouldn´t suggesting going for a walk or dinners. My W, even when things were at their worst agreed to all these dinners I suggested and I was too blind to see how that was considered pursuit. Sandi tried explaining this too me and I wish I would have stopped immediately then. Now is not the time for you to do any of that.

I too thought that by my W wanting to be near me, that was a positive sign but all it meant was my W was trying to keep me hooked as plan B. Plus she actually enjoyed eating good food and letting me pay for it. How do you think that made me look in her eyes? She is completely disrespecting me and I reward her by offering her fancy dinners and quality time with me?

The day I had enough, when I made it clear I am moving on with my life and I have no time for someone who doesn´t want to be with me, that is the day her behavior changed.