I think I'm confusing the heck out of my H. He was taking the kids for supper then to swimming. At the last minute, he (surprisingly) invited me to join them for dinner. I declined, ate by myself at home and went to my volunteer hour. After, I told him I was going out (no details) but unbeknownst to him, none of my friends were available. I was going to go get a drink by myself, but I'm just not that brave/strong yet, so I went for a coffee by myself. After that, I went to Walmart and came home - 2 hours later than usual. He actually came upstairs to say hi and talk to me - he hasn't done that in 6 months! hahaha I'm not thinking by a long shot, that we are out of the woods, or that he's changed his mind, but maybe, just maybe I've got him thinking and I'm ok with that.
Question: Since all this (detachment, GAL, etc) is new to me, and I'm trying hard to do it right, if he asked me why I'm not talking to him as much, or going out more etc, how do I respond? Do I just say "You want a separation, so I am separating myself" ? Do I tell him that I know how he feels now and I'm not waiting at home, hoping he notices me? What do I do? How do I respond to it?
