I'm so sorry AS. Lost my Dad on Memorial Day. I know how tough this is. Agree 100% consider that a bullet dodged. You deserve someone who is present and kind.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver