Midlife wife crisis13

[Wolfman]

Wolf keep in mind I’m trying to help you.

You talk about kissing your kids every day but you gave up that right over a year ago to spare your feelings. That’s selfishness.

Now as far as the latest incident, you could have made sure he had his uniform or used it as a teaching lesson for him to be more responsible. I bet he wouldn’t forget it the next time if he didn’t play.

As for your Ws temper tantrums, you never stood up to her and told her no, that is why she’s not attracted to you. If you don’t put in the work to understand attraction w things are never going to change. Woman are not attracted long term to pushovers.

You and your W both have narcissistic tendencies which will in turn make your children suffer.

You are right I should have never left. I should have stayed and taken back the MBR. What a mistake it was. LH I am so sorry I didn’t listen to you as well many others who told me to go back to the MBR. I am going to stand up to her much more. Regardless of her temper tantrums. I was such a pushover because she was so good at gaslighting me. She had me so convinced if I went against her I was being spiteful or vindictive. When it would be something that I didn’t agree with. I now know not to believe those things.

And we are only trying to help.

You tie everything to the divorce and your ex. Time to take some responsibility, stop the blame game, stop thinking about what she should or shouldn’t be doing or if you agree with her actions or not.

Just focus on your side of the street.

I agree that my kids need to have responsibilities. I’m just saying she should follow up and make sure it s done. She should not be doing everything for my kids. My s is 9. I just think she should had made sure everything g was I. The garage. I am more focused on myself I was just saying what happened and why my s was so angry. Also that she thinks the kids are ok with d. Maybe in time, but right now they are hurting and I don’t think she gets that.