How old is your son? I do believe kids of a certain level of responsibility. If he is supposed to pack his uniform, then he forgets, that’s kind of on him and he learns. But ok, she meets you back there. And he still forgets his uniform. Divorce or not, this could be happening. You can blame her parenting and her selfishness on this.

I dunno. That’s the way I parent and I guess it’s not everyone’s cup of tea. My daughter has a responsibility to make sure she has her stuff. It’s forgotten sometimes and we help her out. But when she’s not keeping up with her responsibilities, she does suffer the consequences and is more aware .

I don’t think this has anything to do with the kids being fine or not form the divorceD your son forgot something twice, misplaced his uniform and I’m the end got the uniform to him.