Sorry you are here. My W BD was about 3 weeks ago and I am an absolute mess.
I am interested how you have split the living arrangements?
Also have you told the kids? What did you tell them?
Also are you doing stuff with the kids together? How does that work for you?
Lots of questions but I am in a simular sitch
Hey Bud,
If you read my initial post, you might get a little more info. Splitting the residence 50/50 on a schedule where kids live. Don't ever just move out.
Outside, we live with friends/family.
We told kids because we had to of course. Very tough and they are doing ok, but it affects them sure.
We coordinate and communicate frequently with household, kids, school, etc. Many kids events we do and they always go well. Most of these are required or holiday.
Relationship wise...in limbo.
Working on myself after getting past all the initial shock and depression. The body and mind can only take so much. It has taken a toll on me, but coming around. Working out, activity, friends, family, work, all help.
Things will slow down and get better, but you have to back off. Just don't make any big mistakes that could hurt you legally later on while your brain is being fried during BD. If unsure, consult with a professional. If things come to that.
