She doesn't know where she's going out of town? Hmm? Sounds like a nice romantical surprise... great job on your response and not being attached to it and also great job in responding to her as far as her having control over what time you get there so she's not late. My XW does this a lot with me what pickups during certain times of the week with her "appointments" as if it's a big mystery that I don't know what she's doing who she seeing where she's going and what time. They're all legitimate therapy appointments but? She always tries to enforce that I get there on time even though I'm always on time and I've never been late. Really good job on the validation firemann
