One of the complaints WW brought to me recently is the reason we stopped fighting for so long is because after we moved house I still kept my job but the commute became 1.5 hrs each way.
I would come home and we'd both be tired and end up watching something on Netflix. So although there were no arguments, she felt disconnected from me and I thought things were ok because no one was fighting.
I also wanted to mention that I did all the finances for WW. She doesn't even open her own mail unless it's a card or an invitation. I've been paying the bills and keeping the lights on since we were married as she wasn't very good at that before we met.
I don't know if I did the right thing - she was happy for me to take care of it - but I see I created someone wholly dependent on me to do everything. She does work f/t and makes average wage. I did her car inspection, topped the fluids up, renewed her registration. Even now she doesn't check the oil level and will tell me if the low oil pressure light comes on. I planned all our vacations - literally all of them. She rarely had an idea about where to take the kids and I regret the few times that she did I didn't take her seriously. Wish I had done otherwise.
Last edited by Cadet; 02/05/2002:38 PM. Reason: combine posts
