Like you said, I wouldn't even mention the IC. Your W will go only if and when she wants to. Plus there are a ton of IC/MC's out there that aren't worth a hoot in my opinion. I'm not sure which part of the world you are in, that may make a difference.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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