Originally Posted by Mumin
To ensure clarity.
I haven't moved out. Atm we alternate living with the kids in the house.


Also, I think this statement is a major contradiction. Move back in your house and stay there full time. Quit moving out to accommodate, hoping this will bring her back.

Trust me, I did this too. I tried giving my W the MBR, staying at my parents...it's pathetic. You are a man with a wife and kids and responsibilities. You do not leave the house.

I'm not saying you have to go all berserker on your W and OM, but you can't be a softie either.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.