And by the time you get the chance to save your marriage, you may not want to if you have really let go and moved on. I've had a revelation the past two days. Nothing the S did, just turned my own thinking around. Now I see what the veterans here are saying. I want more from my life than this I'm a lot older than you and time is short. I am walking away. I'm not telling the H that, it's not a tactic to get him to come back. I'm acknowledging that what he does is entirely in his control and quite honestly, I'm done being jerked around and fed crumbs/Plan B. I want to be someone's Plan A. I look really good for my age and have a really successful professional career, make a lot of money. Additionally, I am changed by this experience and know a lot more about being a good wife. I am also very empathetic and have a nurturing personality. The ultimate "nurse with a purse." LOL. I know finding a good guy over 55 ain't easy but I think I will eventually encounter someone that fits the bill.
Not to mention, I'm completely open to younger ones;) They're great.
