FWIW, I'm a woman. I would not necessarily believe this. But armed with the knowledge that it's out there, you have time to craft a detached response like Steve always says; i.e., be indifferent and see where that goes. Agree and act as if you think it's a great idea too. DR always talks about trying something new and assessing response. That would be very new. If it's really true and she hasn't told you yet, that means she thinks you'll freak out. An indifferent response might shock her and get her thinking. Talk is cheap, especially when it's to someone who doesn't have a personal stake in the game.
