I was hoping there would be a few out here who were in a good spot having the marriage over. Like some of you I fought for a while to save something that was dead already. I have no idea how my ex feels and frankly don't think much about her. I did have to put up some strong boundaries with her and it took her some time for it to sink in with her that I was no longer her husband and not subject to her issues. Our son is very well adjusted and on a successful track. I have spoken very little with him about the marriage and divorce and he has asked only a question or two about it. I do my best to tactfully advise him on issues of life partners and such.
I hope others talk a little about the dating scene. How crazy is it that we have an industry designed to connect single people? And there are places to meet that don't include smoke and inebriation. A boring teetotaler myself I hate the bar scene. I do find that most middle aged single women are pretty into their wines and such.......
Mark
M:53 W:47 M:15 years. S:18 S's: 30 & 28 from previous marriage. BD: 3/14 Divorced January 17.