If mom and dad get divorced, a lot of kids have to move. Life throws all kinds of stuff at us, your kids will need to learn this. That's why you show them that life is all about what you make of it.

Move back into your house and let her figure out where she goes.

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Anyways, when you put it like that it makes me feel dumb and fooled...
Let's call it a starting point.

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Before all this she has always been a loving mother and in general a good parent. But now when we are home together there is always tention..
What do you mean Mrs Mumin? Mumin is just a nickname.
By Mrs Mumin, I mean your W. Your W is now saying that she can't focus on the kids with you there but what she means is that now that she is cheating she can't focus on the kids with you there. F that. Maybe she should take a hike if her cheating has been so hard on her. The fact that she puts it on you and totally ignores you and her vows to you shows me that she has no respect for you right now.

Good job on the gym, crank it up, add in extra stuff. Sharpen your mind too (AKA read more). All of these things will help with sleep.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.