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In case anyone is interested, here is a recap of my date:

Physically, I was attracted. I don’t have a type, something usually does it for me. He’s 5’8” which is a hood match for my 5’3” . Does not look his age of 51. Maybe looks 43. Thin, but fit as he plays basketball and tennis every week.

He had made a comment “I know I’m thinner than my pictures....” he told me I was actually thinner than my pictures. Which is true as I do not photograph well, and I have been losing weight. You could tell he was attracted as he told me I look very nice right when he saw me and I saw the wandering eyes. Kept checking me out.

Conversation: so good. He is a great conversationalist which is important to me. He’s got a great sense of humor. We kept it light, talking about some funny like stories, dating stories, tallied about books, musicians, work, travel, kids, but not too much kids. I honestly felt so incredibly comfortable with him. It was easy and flowed. We had a drink and a bit to eat. I had to be home by a certain time due to the mix up with thinking my daughter was spending the night at hers dads. We could have made that date last very long, but I had to go.

He walks me to my car and kisses me. Kisses me a sweet kiss, no tongue. Gives me the best hug. Oh my, it’s been a while. And we have a few more kisses during an extended goodbye.

When he got home he told me he had a really nice time. I said I did as well and we said goodnight to each other.

I forgot what this felt like. My best friend told me she had a good feeling. My coworkers said they have a good feeling about this one. A was smiling while texting him yesterday and they made me fess up and asked who it was. You guys said you had a good feeling. And so did I.

But it was one date. And it was quite honestly just as I hoped it would go. And I do hope there is another one and we will see where it goes from there

One day at a time, no expectations. But it’s been a while, so I’m just going to enjoy this right now .

Last edited by job; 01/29/20 05:34 PM. Reason: added link to previous thread