1) Do not explain anything.

2) It is OK to pass the present.

3) Listen and validate. Do not share your opinions.

4) Yes. Let her see your parents whenever she wants. Do not try to control her.

5) Accept the food. Do not make assumptions. Do not be overly or underly enthusiastic. Be present. Be a listerner, not a talker. Be the first to leave.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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