Any way to make plans? Get a sitter for the kids, make plans. Then inform him something came up and you can't talk tonight. That will buy you time to study validation. To mentally and emotionally prepare.
Originally Posted by Steve85
Even statements like: "I do not think you should move out. Ever. But I can't stop you from doing so." Are better than saying "Yes I agree" to something that you do not agree to.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712