Thanks BenB

[Mumin]

SHOW them that life in 10% what happens to you and 90% how you respond to it. &
I don't see the need to include your wayward wife in your parenting.

This post was a boost thank you Ovr!

I will try and answer your questions:

She cheats and you move out? How does that make you look and feel?

One of my biggest missteps has been to start planning things WITH her directly after BD...
One thing we talked about (and I emphasized) was that the kids shouldn't have to move. I wanted to protect them...
Thats the main reason we are in this setup. However I have also mentioned that I might want to buy the house (if I can afford it).
Anyways, when you put it like that it makes me feel dumb and fooled...

Do you believe this? Was she able to focus on the kids with both of you home before she started cheating? So is it Mumin or is it Mrs. Mumin?

Before all this she has always been a loving mother and in general a good parent. But now when we are home together there is always tention..
What do you mean Mrs Mumin? Mumin is just a nickname.

I am very tired so will go to bed and get back to reading during my business trip.
In regards to the last tip I probably have the best form of my life right now, started working out heavily in May/June but atm I need to increase frequency again. Build more muscle.
Help me understand:is the saying Hello thing a specific topic on DB? Whats the goal? I meet new ppl almost every day at work.