thanks nop for the info. I've just been very fascinated by this lifestyle from meeting various couples who seem to glamorize it and also from some Real Sex episodes. W and I nearly got into "situation" when we were dating but we chickened out. A few months ago, I had an opportunity to participate in something similar and I choose to be a good boy but it somehow made me look differently at my M and it was the catalyst for all of this work. Maybe it was seeing older adults who loved sex (to the extreme) that made me long for the early days when my W and I were experimental and having lots of great sex. I don't know. It's probably best that we just stay in our own bed. It's just such a "heady" topic to me for some reason. I'm glad to have 2 compelling counter-arguments because I might have been misinformed about this lifestyle.
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