I totally agree with MarchMadness. I have posted much the same sentiments previously myself.
You just don't want to go there. I played in the lifestyle in the 70's, even did a few movie loops. It sounds like MM might have traveled in similar circles.
It starts off fun and invigorating, if you get out of it intact, you will be one of the incredibly lucky few. I still can not believe that I never contracted a disease. Even then, I still have emotional scars. I don't believe it is possible to swing, group grope or even just share a room with another couple without some measure of emotional damage. The problem is that it takes a little while for it to show up. Kind of like a disease...
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.