Lisann ... Welcome to "Piecing" ... and wow, it's been a looong and hard road for you, but your return to the bb in "Piecing" is already encouraging to hear. Your timing is impeccable in regards to my current frame of mind as I have been becoming more and more doubtful as to whether a depressed WA could still be willing to regain a good M after such an expanse of time.
Quote: Our biggest problem is that we are a very hard match...he has an extremely difficult time expressing himself and I am a very emotional person. We are alswys tip toeing around each other and are ill at ease. it is so hard but yet we perservere. There is so much hurt to overcome.
Sounds like some goals could be set around feeling more comfortable being around each other. A lot of it will involve acting "as-if" you are comfortable, confident and secure around him at first before you actually feel that way, but with continuing positive results it will become second nature to feel that way around each other.