Yes I did take note of that, "It'll make me feel better" type of comment. I suspect there'll be more coming as the D finalises (probably another month or so to go) and the house sale completes (probably in the next fortnight or so).
I'm not going to stop DBing as it's working, and I've been reaping rewards from it in other aspects of my life away from Rs.
I have heard of recon stories too. I'm not putting all my bets on that, but AS said to me earlier, "Hope is yours for as long as you want it." I like that way of looking at it. As a LBS I will simply continue to make progress, grow etc., and I know that W will get to hear about all my changes somehow. Then she'll wonder what she chucked away. I'm content in the knowledge that she won't find anyone like me again, and even more so now I've improved lots about me!
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020