Patience and Limbo (Core thread 3)

[Core]

Well LH, I think you spotted the cause. After some reading, the anxious and avoidant combination looks like my M. I hope thats not the case. Going to talk to my IC. Really though we fit it pretty much to the T.

So if its true, neither spouse is ever really happy. If its true, Im likely to find another avoidant and her another anxious, leading to more divorces and turmoil for the kids. F. Even if we work this out and I can deal with what she did, its likely to recurr unless she seeks help which looks doubtful. F.

I think for myself and my family, I need to ask for the divorce. F. This is so sad.