I haven't yet - (Had to feed the kidlets and get them ready! ) but I will!
This is so hard - H is being so friendly with me, insisting I continue my classes, showing me videos he finds interesting etc. It's all so normal and happy which is a complete contrast to my insides.
He was talking to me about problems at work and I really tried to validate instead of problem-solving. I said things like "That would be frustrating" " I can see why that would upset you" etc
He's talking to me and interacting with me more than before he asked to separate but also brought up separating again.
I have my first IC appt tomorrow - it was a last minute cancellation and I almost didn't take it because of work, but I am putting myself first.
