I've seen stories of WWs that went back and I apologized and wanted to get back together after leaving their Hs, marrying the OM, and many many years have passed. It happens.
I think I am saying never. The only reason why is my ex is prideful and that’s her m-o. She cuts people out of her life and never speaks to them again. She has done it with a childhood friend, aunt, cousins, numerous friends, her own brother and list goes on. I am just another casualty I guess. I just miss my family. Being with my kids and in my beautiful home. I guess I just have to adjust to my new reality. Thanks Steve. I wish I had the stamina and patience you have displayed in your situation. You are truly an inspiration.
Thanks Wolf. I can't tell you I know how you feel because I don't. I am sure it is horrible and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy, let alone someone I've come to care about remotely over the internet. So know that I pray for you daily, and others dealing with this garbage.
There is one difference between you and a childhood friend, aunt, cousins, numerous friends, her own brother etc.....she doesn't have kids with any of them. She does with you. That is an unique connection. She is 40. Women go through a huge transition somewhere between 40 and 55. Again, maybe you are right. But I have seen harder hearts softened by time, life changes (kids getting married, having kids, etc). As I said, I saw a story about a woman that left her H and kids, gave up full custody, to be with an OM. They were married, many years went by, and she realized one day that she had made a horrible mistake. Went back to her ex-H and begged for a second chance. Last I heard she had D'd OM, R to exH, and they had been remarried again for several years.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
