It was the one where he discuss amor fati and memento mori.
If you look a couple pages down, it's in the thread I posted about "What DB approaches are right for me?"
the best apology is changed behavior. *************** me: 45 h: 48 m: 23 T: 26 DD1:19 DD2:16 DS:11 BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016 BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016 BD3: H wants a D 11/2019
