I found my H love language and built on that . His was clear though I didn’t have to even ask him . He did something I just said thank you softly . Grew from there .
His love language is totally physical touch - which I can't do right now
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Be mysterious. Dressing nice is great but how are you being mysterious. I came home with sunburn often . He would dig to see how I got it . Always just said too much sun . I think recently i told him I went out boating with my friends a lot he was still wondering!
I love it! I feel so old - I'm late 30s and we've been together almost 20 years - I don't know how much mystery there is in me!! I need to think on this one
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Enjoy your kids . GAL with them . I bought $6 concert tickets and went out on a Friday night . Found free things to do . Dress nice just to go to the mall . Be a better you . Don’t include him or even tell him .
I'm trying so hard to be a better me. I've started working out, making sure I do my nails (except tonight, it was a bad night)
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You will get stronger. My H still says how did you not cry during all of it . Guess what I did I just never let him know .
I hope so - I need strength right now. He send so many confusing messages IE: helping out with the kids at bedtime whereas before once they were in bed, it was all me, now he's helping. Making lunches and meals, helping with chores etc and then making sure to tell me every week or two that nothing has changed and he still wants out.
