We were hoping to do this simply with a mediator when the time comes. Where I live you have to be separated for a min of a year prior to filing for divorce, so it wasn't on my immediate list. I can't afford a lawyer at this stage.
I could email H about all the finances and then at least if he responds, I have it in 'writing'
I know I'm not supposed to initiate conversations about the relationship - would discussing finances qualify?
