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Re: Sandi's Reflections - Part 3 Pack_19 #2876538 12/17/19 05:11 PM
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OP sandi2 Member S Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 18,666 Likes: 1	Hi Paco. Thanks for reaching out on my thread. I'm sorry to hear about your marriage problems. I think it may easier if I find your story and respond on your thread, okay? See you there. It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!

Re: Sandi's Reflections - Part 3 sandi2 #2876761 12/19/19 11:29 AM
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Pack_19 Member P Joined: Dec 2019 Posts: 219 Likes: 7 Spain	Hi Sandi! I have replied to you on my thread! Thanks a lot ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19

Re: Sandi's Reflections - Part 3 sandi2 #2876938 12/20/19 02:35 PM
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Pack_19 Member P Joined: Dec 2019 Posts: 219 Likes: 7 Spain	Hi Sandy, Can I ask you to visit my thread again please? some Q there for you! Thanks for all the help! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19

Re: Sandi's Reflections - Part 3 sandi2 #2882301 01/25/20 04:49 PM
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Cadet Member C Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 13,555 Likes: 90 NY	Nice to see you back again Sandi, hope all is well with you. Me-70, D37,S36

Re: Sandi's Reflections - Part 3 Cadet #2882307 01/25/20 05:10 PM
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OP sandi2 Member S Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 18,666 Likes: 1	Thanks, Cadet. I have struggled with some health issues, but hopefully, it's on the mend. It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!

Re: Sandi's Reflections - Part 3 sandi2 #2882311 01/25/20 05:41 PM
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CT1118 Member C Joined: Jul 2016 Posts: 604 A beach city in the south	I hope you are well Sandi. You and Cadet. I've not come here in almost two years I think. You both did an amazing thing in helping me back in 2016. Not sure why I felt compelled to stop by today, perhaps it was just to wish the best. All of you reading Sandi's posts, Cadet's, Job's etc. listen to them...not to be better at your marriage, but to become a better you. Only by knowing how to improve the relationship you have been in the longest, the one with yourself, can your relationship with others reach its fullest potential. I am a better father, professional, and partner to my former WAS from having listened. These hard lessons we learn here come with heartfelt results. "There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6

Re: Sandi's Reflections - Part 3 sandi2 #2882315 01/25/20 06:59 PM
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hoosjim Member H Joined: Feb 2017 Posts: 1,064	Hey Sandi! Good to see you back! Hope your health issues continue to resolve... Being sick is a real pita! Last edited by hoosjim; 01/25/20 06:59 PM. H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18 "Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7 "So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3

Re: Sandi's Reflections - Part 3 sandi2 #2882327 01/25/20 08:44 PM
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IronWill Member I Joined: Apr 2019 Posts: 750 Likes: 1	Hi Sandi - Sorry to hear of your health issues. I wish you a speedy recovery I have no questions, really - but I did want to take this opportunity to tell you that I have read many of your threads and posts on this forum, and all of them have been very wise, eye-opening and enormously insightful. Some of them have gotten me through the most difficult times of my life. Thank you so much. We are very fortunate to have you here. Take care

Re: Sandi's Reflections - Part 3 sandi2 #2882393 01/26/20 05:16 PM
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Mach40 Member M Joined: Jan 2020 Posts: 649 Likes: 18	Sandi, when you get a chance, can you review my thread/posts and give some of your insight. Thanks https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2882392#Post2882392 Sitting at a Table for One.

Re: Sandi's Reflections - Part 3 sandi2 #2882485 01/27/20 12:59 PM
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Cadet Member C Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 13,555 Likes: 90 NY	Originally Posted by sandi2 Thanks, Cadet. I have struggled with some health issues, but hopefully, it's on the mend. Well I am not happy to learn about health issues but happy to hear that they are on the mend. We are at a time in our life when we must really take care of ourselves. I am so aware of that myself. Me-70, D37,S36

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