Oh, and I was having a conversation with a coworker who has been dating her boyfriend for a year ( it’s the guy I know). She said he’s great, very thoughtful and she 100% trusts him. She does say there are things missing, but she figures it’s worth working through because they do have something good. The good outweighs what’s missing and she knows it won’t be perfect.
Made me think of M telling me something was missing. I knew there were things missing too. But do you give up for that? I don’t know. Perfection isn’t out there and you always have to weigh the good with the bad .