Hi AS,

I deliberately avoided writing here because the date didn´t happen the day it was supposed to. Now I was very suspicious but how could she be a catfish. I have her on Instagram and can see her posts and stories. So I told her flat out - "I hope you really exist". She wrote back that she really wants to meet on Saturday.

So yesterday we finally met. LH is right, there was no way of saying if this can be something in the future based on one date. There´s something about her that interests me but I can´t say what. Something in her eyes.

But she doesn´t behave like the average girl either. After the date I sent her a message om Instagram with my phone number(so far we have only been messaging on insta) and said it was fun seeing her. She only liked my message and shortly after wrote what she had for dinner. She didn´t give me her phone number. I just assumed she wasn´t interested and didn´t answer her message. So this morning sent me a picture of a cute pug and asked how my evening was after she left. We´ve messaged a bit back and forth so not sure what to make of it. I think I´d have to go on a few more dates before I know if there could be something between us.

But I also feel this is too early. A perfect time line would have been if I was single for about a year before I met someone. But can´t really plan those things of course


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019