Midlife wife crisis13

[Wolfman]

I went to Norway with my GF the other day and I did not post anything about it. Went quietly without the ex knowing. It has been relatively quiet. Communication is a minimum. Only about the kids. Today my son had a basketball game. I sat next to my d and my ex sat on the other side of my d. My d got up and she moved next to me. Very little talk. But then she asked me. When I get my house and pick up the kids that I am suppose to bring the kids back to her. I said that is not in the settlement. She insisted it was. Just as she continued at started to get loud I said this is not the place or the time to talk about this. We can talk about this later. She said it’s never the time to talk to you. I said I am sorry we are not talking about this anymore we are here for our son. And the conversation stopped. Rhetorical question but why does she have to do this there. Do it through text. She likes to make a scene and I am tired of it. The reality is for the pickup it was an oversight in the settlement. Originally I was suppose to pick up the kids everyday and wait at her house till she got home on her days with them. But we switched that. It does say that I pick up the kids everyday and bring them back to my house. But nowhere does it say if I bring the kids to her or if she picks them up on her days. That was left out. She refuses to pick them up from my house which is only 10 minutes away. She we need to come up with a compromise. I was thinking pick them up get them in their house and leave. My d is 12 and s is 9. They would only be alone for 30 minutes before she got home. I will offer that up to her and see what she says.