Yes! A year ago I believed the most important thing was to be with one partner my whole life. I now put more weight on the happiness of my kids and I. You must know there are many out there who'd be thrilled to have a 50/50 partnership with someone as committed as you are to trying to make love and family work. I can't believe I put so much energy into my ex. I put a fraction of that energy into my current partner, and she feels cherished, and rewards me so! There are second chances out there for you, if he doesn't shape up soon.
CWarrior, thanks so much for your encouraging words. I love reading about happy endings. Whatever the outcome of this I don't want to become a bitter person holding on to baggage. I do believe there is more for me whether it is with H or someone else. I am now having a hard time believing it is H but God can change anyone.
H and Me - Both 45; S13 and D9 BD - 11/2019 Married 14 years; Together 20 years
