Bud, as others have said, if she’s worth it chances of reconciling are far, far from over. After BD and months of separation, my ex returned to sleeping in my arms 60% of the time. I decided she wasn’t worth it, but if yours is, don’t give up! Settle in that turning this around will take 6-12 months. That sounds long, but it’s probably fast compared to how long it took for all her resentment and wrong feelings to build up. You’ll also be using this time to GAL and build yourself up, so it won’t be a waste whatever the outcome.
CW is right. If she is worth it, you'll figure out a way to stand.
In my experience it has taken over 17 months just to slow down W's exit.
Figure out what you want to do. Make a decision, set your boundaries, and then you'll know what to do from there.
It is all up to you. Many LBS don't realize that, but it is. You can stand as long as you want. The choice is yours.
