Hey U - I may not be up on everything in your sit, but are you not responding at all when it comes to the kids?
I respond to some items. Not the ones which are bait for arguments.
I did correct course a bit this week to be a little more assertive on certain items. Assertive in a courteous and respectful way (or at least that is how I try to word things, not sure how they come across to her).
