I agree - do not go out with them. They should be interested enough to make it happen. My bf texted me everyday more then once before we even met. So far- this is a predictor of what has been incredible. He makes tons of effort and everyday so far I feel worship, cherished and adored.

Here’s the thing, men do not get as many responses back as we get requests. They also do not get as many agreements to meet up. (Unless your on bumble) If a girl responds back, they need to jump on that opportunity. If not, it means they don’t want it bad enough.

My first time on OLD, I had responded back to a guy and we set up a date and he told me he was going away for some sort of vacation. He didn’t text back and forth and by the time he came back I was already dating someone else and I ended up ghosting cause I didn’t hear from him during that time.

Guys have to know better because quality women won’t put up with that because the market is in their favor. OLD is all about Market value and what’s in demand. Know your worth and don’t settle for less.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer