Hey DaB35, glad you're hanging in there, gyming, and have a good head on your shoulders. Your story has definitely nudged me to be more honest about a certain topic. When my new lady asked if I'd ever watched you-know-what, I was like "YES! I actually pulled videos up for a new technique I'd like to try with you once we get intimate." That triggered questions which I left at, "Maybe you'll find out." She was screening me ("Is he an addict?!") and I was screening her ("Is she looking for a unicorn guy who never does?!")