Focus on what you can control. Your behavior and your interactions. Things that work are so counter-intuitive. Every part of your being wants to pursue, but pulling away works better.
Change your bad habits. Be attractive. Be seductive. Know the difference. Fix you. Let him fix him.
Google "stockdale paradox" and apply it to your life.
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Stockdale explained this idea as the following: "You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end — which you can never afford to lose — with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be."
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
